How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Two competitions and a charity!

With the exception of long-ago childhood excitement (mingled with dread) about whether (or not) I would receive a card from a secret admirer, I’ve never been a particularly gung-ho participator in Valentine’s day. I guess I’m one of those who tend to prefer the little everyday demonstrations of love and romance over the idea of a societally assigned day of cliché. I have dearly appreciated the romance of an electric foot warmer over flowers, I am thankful for the lovingly made soft-boiled eggs with neatly buttered and cut soldiers when I’ve come home hungry after a late night event and I prefer daily kisses, cuddles and kind words to a showy profession by way of a girly necklace or glittery ring,

I’m particularly glad Pete isn’t given to ostentatiously public displays; gaudy (and visibly expensive) bouquets sent to the office rather than given in person strike me as little more than showing off or worse, proprietarily staking a claim. Since when did romance require grabbing the attention of anyone other than the object of one’s affections?

That’s not to say I don’t like flowers; it’s simply that the unexpected bunch of bright yellow daffodils for no particular occasion is a far bigger delight than scentless red roses on the 14th February.

All that said and done, we never entirely bypass Valentine’s day because of a little addiction of mine. Hey, it’s not a problem, I’m not hurting anyone, I can stop anytime I want, I am totally in control!

Who am I fooling? I’m addicted to greeting cards. Yes, those little folded rectangles of card with cutesie images and anodyne statements;  I adore them. I love buying cards, I love sending cards and I am joyous to receive cards. (In seriousness, I have reined in my habit by agreeing not to buy more if my allocated greeting card drawer is already full. This is more challenging to stick to than you might imagine). So, there must always be cards, on Valentine’s day and through the rest of the year as well.

What else? Let’s take a look at a couple of offerings that have caught my eye.

Chocolate

We both adore chocolate so it’s often part of our birthday, Christmas and anytime gifts to each other. We seldom buy boxes of chocolates (it’s usually bars, far better value), and very rarely on Valentine’s day. But I confess I would be more than happy to be given this big chocolate Hotel Chocolat Love Birds chocolate heart! Featuring a very pretty love birds design, half is salted caramel chocolate and the other half 50% milk praline. (£26; 650 grams).

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Better still, Hotel Chocolat are kindly giving away one beautiful Love Birds chocolate heart to a Kavey Eats reader. Click here to enter.

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Other products that have caught my eye in this year’s Hotel Chocolat Valentine’s range include:

  • The Valentines Goody Bag (containing chocolate and passion fruit truffles; a pack of caramel sweethearts; two 50g milk chocolate Mellow Heart slabs; Champagne Truffles; and a Valentine’s truffle duo of Caramel Gianduja and a Strawberry Cheesecake; £18).
  • This bottle of Cocoa Gin made in small batches in traditional copper-pot stills; roasted cocoa shells contribute to the rich flavour. (£15, 250ml).
  • A box of six balsamic caramel hearts (£3.75).

Drinking In

The last two years have seen a surge of specialist food and drink subscription services (such as the Carnivore Club cured meat and Beer 52 craft beer boxes I reviewed previously).

The latest to come to my attention is Tipple Box, a monthly cocktail subscription created by founder Sonny Charles. After launching just last month with the help of crowd-funding, Sonny is now ready for cocktail lovers to sign up. Each month, he sends out two cocktail recipes with ingredients (spirits, mixers and anything else in the recipe) and mixing jar. All you need to add is the ice.

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Pete and I enjoyed the two cocktails in our Tipple Box, one a combination of gin, marmalade and mixer, the other a blend of vodka, strawberry jam and mixer, though it’s a shame the two recipes were so similar. I’d like to see a little more creativity in future boxes (small batch spirits and mixers, rather than mainstream brands, and the addition of intriguing bitters, fruit and herb syrups and cordials, flavoured salts and sugars – the kinds of things a keen cocktail maker might not readily be able to source themselves in the supermarket).

But it’s a great start for a new business, very nicely presented and a rather lovely idea for an intimate night in making and drinking cocktails together. Of course, you can buy this to give to your loved one in person but I think it would also be a charming gift to send via the post to a LDR lover, ready and waiting to make cocktails the next time you get together.

One box costs £24 including delivery in the UK, with reductions in price for longer subscriptions.

Better still, Sonny is kindly giving away a one month Tipple Box to a Kavey Eats reader. Click here to enter.

Whether you win the competition or not, all readers can make use of discount code KAVEY10 for 10% off the monthly subscription price, valid until end of March 2015.

Eating Out

I can’t think of much worse (in terms of Valentine’s day celebrations) than booking a typical table for two on Valentine’s day. I know, I know, you already thought I was a killjoy when you read my introduction, now you are convinced I’m utterly heartless. But let me explain myself…

The idea of wasting money to order from a limited-choice, overpriced “special” Valentine’s menu, often laden down with so-called aphrodisiac ingredients at the expense of coherence and tastiness… sitting amongst a sea of couples, many of them looking like startled rabbits when suddenly faced with the prospect of actually spending an entire evening talking to their chosen “loved one”, some of them singularly failing to say a word… service rushed as waiters struggle to handle a higher volume of finicky small tables, customers even more demanding than usual as they claw for the evening to live up to their unrealistic expectations… uugh, it really doesn’t bear thinking about!

Our usual habit is to cook a tasty meal at home, settle down on the sofa to watch a good film, or to read our kindles in companiable and comfortable silence.

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Image courtesy of Nick Gibson, used with permission

This year, we shall be making our way with friends to The Drapers Arms, a wonderful pub in Islington. Not only are we guaranteed good food and a merry time, landlord Nick Gibson is once again donating 100% of the night’s takings to Refuge, a charity helping women in need of support. Read his eloquent post on why he’s doing this and book for a non-valentiney Valentine’s dinner with your partner or friends.

 

Kavey Eats received sample products from Hotel Chocolate and Tipple Box.

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18 Comments to "How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Two competitions and a charity!"

  1. Rosie

    I’m doing a pop up restaurant on Valentines – hoping to offer something a little different for those who want to go out but not to a restaurant full of loved up couples!!

    Rosie xx

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    kaveyeats

    That sounds fun, and definitely a nice alternative to the usual, especially as the supperclubs I’ve attended have been a really communal affair, very friendly and whole group rather than couple oriented.

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  2. Sarah Maison Cupcake

    We tend to have something a bit more special for dinner and open a bottle of something fizzy. Eating in a restaurant on 14 Feb is nonsensical, if we eat out around then we’d rather “celebrate valentines” on the nearest weekend rather than the day itself. I’m not into flowers, I’d sooner my husband brought home a bottle of champagne.

    I love the look of those caramel balsamic hearts – might have to check those out if I go near a Hotel Choc in next couple of weeks!

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  3. Hazel Rea

    I cook a special meal at home on Valentine’s Day – and for breakfast make my husband toast with a heart and I love you imprinted on it.

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  4. nazima

    Like you I cannot bear the idea of eating out – home, a nice meal and a nice comfortable evening (but perhaps it is a sign of age but I do not need the excitement of a ‘special’ menu!

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  5. Pina

    Your first paragraph… we are completely on the same page when it comes to Valentine’s Day. I agree with you 100%. Every day is Valentine’s Day. 🙂 I also agree with what you wrote about eating out… we always had the worst times when we ate out on 14 Feb so for several years now we have been staying in and making our own lovely meal. Much more pleasant!

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  6. Jen @ Blue Kitchen Bakes

    I’m another anti Valentine’s person, I went out for a meal with my first boyfriend in my late teens and it was a disaster, crap food and terrible service. Since then I’ve never been interested in celebrating the day, it’s also my birthday 2 days before so I’d rather get a nicer birthday present from my OH and skip the whole thing. We make up for it with plenty of other little romantic gestures throughout the year though.

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    kaveyeats

    Jen, the only fun thing about going out on Valentine’s day is people watching. Some of them seem to be in proper car crashes of a relationship, which sounds awfully cruel and judgmental, but I can’t help it.

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  7. zoe goodwin

    Once the kids are in bed, we enjoy a meal and a bottle of fizz together. Lovely!

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  8. Claire Potts

    It’s our 10th wedding anniversary so children are off to grandparents and we are off to a nice hotel for the weekend :o)

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